Grandmother says... Carrots, Eggs, or Coffee...
"Which are you?"
A young woman went to her grandmother and told her about her life and how things were so
hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was
tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved a new one arose.
Her grandmother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water. In the first, she placed
carrots, in the second she placed eggs and the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let
them sit and boil without saying a word.
In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them
in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out
and placed it in a bowl. Turning to her granddaughter, she asked, "Tell me what do you see?"
"Carrots, eggs, and coffee," she replied.
She brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they got
soft.She then asked her to take an egg and break it.
After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg.
Finally, she asked her to sip the coffee. The granddaughter smiled, as she tasted its rich
aroma. The granddaughter then asked. "What's the point,grandmother?"
Her grandmother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity--boiling
water--but each reacted differently.
The carrot went in strong, hard and unrelenting. However after being subjected to the boiling
water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had
protected its liquid interior. But, after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became
hardened.
The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water they had
changed the water.
"Which are you?" she asked her granddaughter.
"When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg, or a
coffee bean?"
Think of this: Which am I?
Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity, do I wilt and become soft and
lose my strength?
Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid
spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become
hardened and stiff?
Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and a
hardened heart?
Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance
that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor. If you are like
the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you.
When the hours are the darkest and trials are their greatest do you elevate to another level?
~AUTHOR UNKNOWN~
