I've heard every single one of these statements come out of someone's mouth before. This is a perfect example of what not to say to a parent who's miscarried. Karla spells it out perfectly. (Click here to read Karla's story)
Thank God, I have never experienced such loss, but I would hope that my family and faith in God would help pull me through even the darkest of days.
I have family members and close personal friends who have had miscarriages. I didn't know what to say at the time and still don't know that I'd say and or do the right thing today. I think sometimes there are just no real words that will comfort someone, but if we're careful saying the wrong thing doesn't have to cause them even more pain.
God bless Karla, her husband and their unborn baby. I hope she can be an inspiration to us all. Please be mindful of what you say to people suffering such a loss.
Very well written. Every word is true. I also heard every one of these comments.
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